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Retirement communities can be wonderful places to extend the life of your parents with so many added benefits and perks. These homes are well-equipped and designed for the aging senior in mind, with a variety of factors that increase overall quality of life, such as same-aged community, safe premises (mechanical gates, security cameras and systems), prepared nutritional meals, and special events.
Many seniors find themselves in a happier stage of life as a resident of a retirement home, especially because of the group of people that surrounds them on a daily basis. Loneliness is often something retirees have to combat, but retirement homes work well to immerse people back into lively communities. However, this is not true for everyone; big changes and adjustments are still difficult to go through and that can be a stifling factor for some adults. Furthermore, retirement homes are not equal in quality; your loved one might be living in a situation that is affecting their health negatively.
When a resident of a retirement home is unhappy, changes need to be made in order to give the senior a better life. So, if your loved ones are unhappy in their retirement home, what do you do? Do you transfer them to a new facility, or try to make the best out of the current situation?
For some situations, this topic is especially sensitive, like when it comes to Alzheimer’s or dementia patients. With a loss in memory, it can be tough to get used to a new living place with new surroundings, people, and experiences. In this case, it is best to involve familiar faces and things with the move and adjustment. If your parent is unhappy in their retirement community, follow these guidelines for a successful move or new transition.
Moving to a new home will make anyone uncomfortable for a period of time; it is the same with seniors moving to a retirement home. Many stressors come along with moving and settling, such as packing and purging your home, adjusting to a new environment, meeting new people, and figuring out the lay of the land. It could very well take a toll on your parent. The important thing is to make sure to wait before making an abrupt decision to switch homes. Generally, it should take about three to six months to adjust to the change. Between that time, help your parent or parents ease into their new lifestyle.
There are a few easy processes you can go through to work with your parents to make their life better at a retirement home. First of all, make sure they have familiar items available and displayed in their new home. Photos of family, comforts from their old home (favorite chair, pillow, kitchen appliances, handmade items from kids or grandkids), and house plants can make even the smallest space feel welcoming. Along with these homey additions, make sure you are there for your parents in person. Visits from loved ones are often welcome and a comfort from the newness of a retirement home. Bring your kids, close family members, maybe even an old friend to make the place feel more like home. Participating in the provided calendar events is a wonderful way to immerse your parents into a new lifestyle. The variety of planned events caters to lots of hobbies and social groups. Try joining your parent on one of these activities; Bingo is always a popular game among retirees, and crafting exercises, like quilting and crocheting are also great ways to have some fun. With these social events, your parents should feel right at home in no time. They will be able to connect with the other adults in the community and enjoy themselves.
Unfortunately not all retirement homes provide such loving support and encouragement to seniors; there are sometimes cases where people are underfed, neglected, and abused. This is awful and absurd, but it does happen. Please be aware that it could happen to your parents or parent, although unlikely, especially if you thoroughly vetted the establishment. Neglect is a serious issue and you should remove your parents from the facility as soon as possible if you notice the obvious red flags. Here are a few red flags to look out for when assessing your parents’ desire or need to move.
If your parents are still unhappy after a general period of waiting, or if you notice that they are being neglected at their retirement home, it is probably time to move on. This time around, make sure to properly vet the establishment of choice. Bring your parents with you and tour the new facilities; it is helpful to bring a checklist with you to make sure your requirements are being met and a list of questions to ask the staff. Here are just a few quick questions to get you started:
The new move will still be a process, so apply those same steps of moving a parent into a new home. Make it familiar, visit regularly, and get them involved in the community with events and interactions between neighbors. Hopefully this new environment will lift your parents’ spirits with an environment full of compassion and fun.
If the issue continues, even at a new home, consider other options. A lot of the time, a retired parent will live with sons or daughters. They are able to care for their parent with background knowledge of their health and have more empathy than a retirement home employee. This change can come with stressors and joys, but it may be the best situation for your parent. There is also the option of living at the original household, but with assistance, like an on-site nurse or caretaker. Either one is a great option for parents who just can’t get used to life at a retirement home. Whatever you decide, you are the one who has your parents’ best wishes at heart and will be able to make the decision in their best interest.
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